What Every Husband/Wife Needs

I read these two posts by Justin & Trisha Davis yesterday and had to share.

What every husband needs. (Read the whole post here.)
1. Loyalty
2. Encouragement
3. Sex
4. Common interests
5. Prayer

What every wife needs. (Read the whole post here.)
1. Pursuit
2. Prayer
3. Engagement
4. Leadership

I thought they were pretty spot on with these posts. A tweet by The Marriage Bed @themarriagebed "If you decided to start treating your spouse how God wants you to treat them, how much would you have to change?" Pretty good thought! I'm blessed to have a husband who pursues me, prays for me, engages with me, and leads me and our children!

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