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10 Questions Every Man Should Ask His Wife Every Year

If you're a man, and you're married. Consider asking your wife these questions every year and then discussing with her the answers she gives you.


1. What could I do to make you feel more loved?
2. What could I do to make you feel more respected?
3. What could I do to make you feel more understood?
4. What could I do to make you more secure?
5. What can I do to make you feel more confident in our future direction?
6. What attribute would you like me to develop?
7. What attribute would you like me to help you develop?
8. What achievement in my life would bring you greatest joy?
9. What would indicate to you that I really desire to be more Christ like?
10. What mutual goal would you like to see us accomplish?
Optional: Have I overlooked any question you would like for me to ask?

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